You are interested in why people say what they say today. It isn't that you are self-conscious as much as you really want to know the motivation behind other people's statments and stances. You will find it difficult to ask someone directly for an explanation as you will decide that this is no way to find out the truth of the situation. Asking others will be a better strategy but be sure to do so out of concern rather than to turn the information you receive against this individual.
Cancer is protective about the family and home. They care about their partners and are able to express themselves emotionally. Sometimes a Cancer can become too sensitive; this is part of their moodiness. They learn to control their emotions as they get older. Cancer has an uncanny memory and is very sentimental and sympathetic to others. They are tenacious and will not be swayed when they desire something.
Note: Any predictions of future events are NOT guaranteed, they are meant only as possibilities.